WEX DUST DSR, FINDING INVASION UNDER 5 MINS

https://www.nexusmods.com/darksoulsremastered/mods/466?tab=description
Or you can try the github page( they are the same file but i recommended the github page as they explain way more detail about the mod, but we will stick to the wexdust item in this guide only)
https://github.com/metal-crow/Dark-Souls-1-Overhaul/releases/latest

You can read more about others feature of the mod here:
https://github.com/metal-crow/Dark-Souls-1-Overhaul#changelist

Either download the zip from nexus, or from github with the link above
And after that just unzip the contents of the zip into your DARK SOULS REMASTERED folder to install (so d3d11.dll should be in the same folder as the game exe). If a command window pops up on game start, the mod is installed.
You can locate the game folder by going to your game library > right click on DSR > browse game folder

FROM MY EXPERIENCE: YES
Why should you use it?
For one, it means you can build PvP characters with CE and not worry about getting banned anymore. Because the built in "anti-cheat" and banning functionality is removed when the mod is loaded. So you wont be banned.
The best thing is: YOU CAN ALSO INVADE PEOPLE WHO DONT USE THE MOD
this is the best feature.
From my 40 hours of using this mods, i havent been banned. Some people on the dsr forum also share the same experience. But it's a mod anyway, so use at your own risk
Or you can think of it like the wexdust and honest merchant of DS3, they are safe to use anyway.

GO TO NEW LONDO RUIN

GO AND TALK TO THIS DUDE
BUY ALL THE ITEM BELOW ( THE EYES ORB)
AND THERE YOU HAVE IT!

HAVE FUN INVADING AND GO CLAP SOME CASUAL WITH WEXDUST
BTW HERE IS A VIDEO OF ME BAIT THE HOST INTO HITTING SOLARIE
IM EVIL

so i can feed my kid
for real, no joke